Find a joke to tell a girl then email to break the ice!
OR   relax, take your time, have a good laugh

then   tell your friends and renew old acquaintances.

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The best humour reminds us that deep down we're all strange, puzzled creatures who don't really understand the world or how to behave. That kind of humour is warm and generous, it's inclusive. Of course you get other humour which is nasty and cruel, it's about sneering at little people. I think it's much braver to sneer at big people, don't you?
John Cleese